How to Choose Where to Get an Autism Assessment: Key Things to Look For

If you or someone you love is considering an autism assessment, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. There are more options than ever — but how do you choose the right one?

Here’s a guide to help you find a provider who will give you an accurate, respectful, and meaningful evaluation.

1. Look for Specialists in Autism Across the Lifespan

Not all psychologists or clinicians are autism experts. Make sure the team or professional you choose:

●        Specialises in autism assessments, not just general mental health.

●        Has experience with your age group (e.g., diagnosing toddlers is different from adults).

●        Understands diverse presentations (especially in women, nonbinary individuals, or people who mask their traits).

Pro Tip: Ask directly, "How much of your caseload is autism assessments?" and "Are you experienced with diagnosing autism in [adults/women/non-speaking individuals]?"

2. Check if They Use Gold-Standard Tools — But Go Beyond Them

Good assessments usually include:

●        Parent or self-interviews (like the ADI-R)

●        Observation tools (like the ADOS-2)

●        Questionnaires and developmental history

However, tools alone aren’t enough. The best clinicians:

●        Look at the whole person, not just test scores.

●        Understand masking and camouflaging behaviours.

●        Are willing to override standardised tools when clinical judgment says so (important for adults and marginalised groups).

3. Ask About a Neurodiversity-Affirming Approach

Language matters. Look for clinics that:

●        Use respectful, strengths-based language (e.g., "autistic person" if that's preferred, and not "disorder" every other word).

●        Recognise autism as a neurological difference, not just a set of deficits.

●        Focus on support recommendations, not just a label.

If a provider talks only about “fixing,” “curing,” or seems dismissive of self-advocacy voices, they may not be neurodiversity-affirming.

4. Consider Practical Things Too

Other important factors:

●        Wait times: Some places have 6–12 month waits.

●        Cost: Ask upfront about full costs. Some insurance plans partially cover assessments.

●        Location: Are they flexible with in-person or remote options?

●        Multidisciplinary Teams: For complex cases (like co-occurring ADHD or learning disabilities), a team approach can be more thorough.

5. Make Sure You Get a Written Report and Follow-Up Support

A quality assessment should end with:

●        A detailed report explaining findings clearly.

●        Actionable recommendations — for school, work, therapy, daily life.

●        A feedback session where you can ask questions.

You deserve a report that makes sense to you, not just to doctors!

6. Ask Around: Personal Recommendations Matter

Sometimes the best insights come from people who have already been through the process.

●        Ask friends, family, or online communities if they have experience with a particular clinic or professional.

●        Find out how they felt about the process — were they listened to, respected, and supported?

●        Would they recommend the service to others?

A glowing recommendation (or a warning to steer clear) can be incredibly valuable when making your decision.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right place for an autism assessment is about more than just credentials. It’s about finding someone who will truly see you, respect you, and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Trust your instincts. If a provider doesn’t feel like a good fit — keep looking. You’re not just getting a diagnosis — you’re opening a new chapter in understanding yourself or your loved one.